Why is it that sometimes we think things, but we can't say them to our friends? Why do we have such a hard time telling our friends things? I recently found the answer to this is a TV show I watch (Ghost Whisperer.) It's because friends and family are so important to us that we would do anything to keep them around. We won't let anything jeopardize our relationships. When we know our friends have something they want to say, but feel like they can't, don't be pushy; be supportive. They want to know that you'll always be there for them no matter what. They want to feel as if you aren't going to judge them.... And come on - this is your close and personal friend, you really shouldn't be judging them.
If you wanna say something to a friend, but don't feel like you can, GO FOR IT! If this friend of yours is going to stop being your friend over something, why are you even friends? A real friend would look passed your flaws or indifferences. A real friend will catch you when you fall. Sometimes things come as a shock to your friends. They might act angry or get upset with you, but they just need time. And if it doesn't improve from there you probably just lost a friend.... Obviously, not a very good one.
Honestly, if you have something to say, SAY IT! There's no need to hide it anymore.
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